Implement the affinity operations

[Gsantomaggio]

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.

Per conversation with @acogoluegnes

It would be nice to have the affinity operations like java is experimenting with:

environment.connectionBuilder().affinity().queue("my-qq")
        .operation(ConnectionSettings.Affinity.Operation.PUBLISH)
        .connection().build();

Describe the solution you'd like

The feature will try to connect to the node that hosts the leader of the quorum queue.
That will reduce the internode traffic and increase the performance.

It is not mandatory for 4.0.0 just a nice to have

Describe alternatives you've considered

No response

Additional context

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